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		<title>Mommy guilt</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Mommy guilt/stress/worry is a powerful force. Most of the time I am purposely pretty relaxed about things, or at least I attempt to be, but it still creeps in. Is she eating enough? Is she sleeping enough? That&#8217;s the biggie really because everybody tells you how important that is, so she could probably [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Mommy guilt/stress/worry is a powerful force. Most of the time I am purposely pretty relaxed about things, or at least I attempt to be, but it still creeps in. Is she eating enough? Is she sleeping enough? That&#8217;s the biggie really because everybody tells you how important that is, so she could probably sleep fabulously for 20 hours a day and I&#8217;d still be worried. You know what I&#8217;m saying? Adrian has to remind me that she&#8217;s growing and I just don&#8217;t need to stress about it. I try to remember that when she wakes up when we&#8217;re ready to head to bed and doesn&#8217;t go back to sleep for an hour. Hehe.</p>
<p>On most points I feel pretty good on the mothering front (okay, depending on the day). We have so far been successful vis a vis the house ban on battery operated toys, and she enjoys playing with my fabric scraps as much as anything else. So of course that makes me happy. Ideally I&#8217;d like her to have a little less &#8217;screen time,&#8217; but even that isn&#8217;t much. We watch a few shows as a family, but mostly after she goes to sleep. She likes Michelle Duggar (I swear she smiles biggest whenever she&#8217;s on the screen), and if that&#8217;s her TV I don&#8217;t feel too bad. Who wouldn&#8217;t love them, seriously? I want to be Michelle (though perhaps with less children&#8211;I just mean the way she speaks and acts), so it doesn&#8217;t surprise me Morgan is drawn to her, too.</p>
<p>Anyway. I didn&#8217;t mean to get on a Duggar tangent. The other big thing is the computer, which I am personally trying to use way less of. I keep it off during the day and make myself turn it off when I&#8217;m finished. It&#8217;s a time waster, and I don&#8217;t like feeling like I&#8217;m squandering my time. So far I&#8217;m feeling good about that. I spent a crazy amount of time in front of the computer watching shows on Hulu when she was small and we spent half of every day nursing. So it&#8217;s good to break away.</p>
<p>The computer lessening is more possible because I use my phone, which means I&#8217;m also trying to limit how much I&#8217;m staring at that. Adrian saw something from&#8230;Jimmy Fallon?&#8230;about how the kids just want their parents to pay attention to them instead of their iPhones. Yeah. Guilty as charged, at least a little. So we&#8217;re working on that a bit, too <img src='http://theuntitledtitlepage.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Of course, all my efforts to give her a <a href="http://www.commercialexploitation.org/">commercial free childhood</a> (or some degree of that) with less noise and electronics is prettymuch negated by the fact that her favorite toys are our phones. Haha. What can you do?</p>
<p>And now for a few pictures for those people who only scan for pictures and don&#8217;t actually read what&#8217;s written&#8230;<br />
<a class="flickr-image alignnone" title="DSC_0198" href="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2574/4110965294_0f08fcdda0.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-723];player=img;" rel="lightbox[723]"><img class="flickr-medium aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2574/4110965294_0f08fcdda0.jpg" alt="DSC_0198" width="267" height="400" /></a>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="flickr-image alignnone" title="DSC_0232" href="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2743/4110965894_26477790ca.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-723];player=img;" rel="lightbox[723]"><img class="flickr-medium aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2743/4110965894_26477790ca.jpg" alt="DSC_0232" width="400" height="267" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="flickr-image alignnone" title="DSC_0235" href="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2492/4110202651_2c6eaff54f.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-723];player=img;" rel="lightbox[723]"><img class="flickr-medium aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2492/4110202651_2c6eaff54f.jpg" alt="DSC_0235" width="400" height="267" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">She&#8217;s getting hair, and even some possible curls, which is what I was attempting to capture here.</p>
<p>P. S. Yes, I&#8217;ve been crafting a lot with the new sewing machine. See, even Morgan has been in on the fun:<br />
<a class="flickr-image alignnone" title="DSC_0258edit" href="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2779/4110966778_8e302cb12f.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-723];player=img;" rel="lightbox[723]"><img class="flickr-medium aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2779/4110966778_8e302cb12f.jpg" alt="DSC_0258edit" width="400" height="258" /></a><br />
Danger alert! Yes, I know she probably shouldn&#8217;t play with bobbins because she might choke. But I was right there watching and if she tried to put one in her mouth I&#8217;d pull her hand away. So don&#8217;t worry. <img src='http://theuntitledtitlepage.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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